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Frederick David Mathis, the
10th child of James Henry and Mary Elizabeth,
became a teacher and taught in several rural schools in southern Phelps
County, MO. In the spring of 1920 Fred was teaching Democrat School,
located
a few miles from the town of Duke, MO. One of the students was Maudie May
Reagan. Maudie wrote a letter to her teacher inviting him to a dance at
her
home April 23. On April 23 Fred wrote a letter of application to the Board
of Directors of Democrat School stating he would teach the next term and do
the janitor work for $45 per month. Maudie's father was a member of the
Board of Directors. On April 26 Maudie wrote that "Papa is in favor
of you
teaching the school...." but that the other two Board members wanted
to hire
another person. April 29 Fred wrote asking Maudie to try to change her
father's thinking "for I don't believe it would be a good idea for me to
get
it." He didn't get the school.
In the summer of 1921 they both attended "Normal School" - a teacher
preparation course - in St. James, MO. Maudie wanted to be a teacher too.
In those days a person passed a Missouri State test to get a teaching
certification, a high school diploma was not required. She wrote asking
him
to help her with some school work. He worked some math problems and mailed
them back to her. She wrote saying some of the girls in her rooming house
weren't very nice. He wrote to encourage her, but included a bit of
teasing. He owned a Kodak Brownie box camera and there are pictures of
them
and their friends.
Beginning with the invitation to the dance, they saw each other almost every
weekend at church, dances, picnics, etc., and wrote letters during the week
until their marriage on 25 January 1922 - the day after Maudie's 18th
birthday.
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Shortly before my Mother's death at age 90 she told me that she had never
been able to dispose of those letters, that it would now be my responsibility
to do so. I accepted the responsibility with the promise I would not read
them. She replied "I don't care if you read them." I've
read all 95 letters
and cards. What a gift to have insight to the kind of people my parents were
as young adults. What a responsibility to keep the promise to dispose of
them.
Virginia Mathis Tipton
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